a heartbreak makes you realise what is important in life, and when you experienced it, then think back to what you had seen as important before the heartbreak. and you suddenly realise that really, you were nothing, nothing at all, in the grand scheme of things. life is just a series of events, that is all, and you have no real power over it whatsoever.

you just thought you did.

do an ostrich impression
put up a facade
envelope youself in feigned ignorance